Everyone knows the swan as a graceful creature. Floating around in a tree-lined pond, just the two of you and a little bit of mist. That is what an enchanting sight looks like. The swan tells you that you may become who you truly are. That you are allowed to be beautiful and to display your full splendor, allowing others to be touched by your beauty.
Eternal loyalty?
Swan couples are forever faithful to each other. Sometimes they might fight, but they know deep down that their partner is the one they want to spend the rest of their lives with. But swans have it easy. It is just looking for another swan that invokes a good feeling and is willing to mate. Once they mated, they will stay a couple forever. We humans are a bit different. Our intelligence plays tricks on us. But also, what has been taught, predicted and imposed on us in the form of norms and values. Who is good enough for you? Or maybe many partners are actually suitable, but we always tend to want to tinker with somebody, to change somebody.
Dear cherished one, if this looks familiar to you. Stop it. Somebody only changes when the drive comes from within him or her SELF. It is also important that you feel from your deepest BEing whether your partner is close to your dimension. Many couples find out that when the earth’s vibrations increase, their relationships suddenly appear to be very different. You are growing, while the other is stagnating. At least that is how it feels. The only thing that happens is that you want to be more in tune with your soul. That you want to look at yourSELF and live from unconditional love and compassion.
The other is not ready (yet) or doesn’t get that far in this life. Is that bad? No. Not as long as you can accept that your partner has his own way to go. It may happen that you realize that the gap between your dimension and the other is too big. In such cases, the relationship won’t last, no matter how hard the both of you try. Or that you do have a partner with a soul alignment close to yours, but that there are still some walls to tear down, but only if your partner wants that too.
During every life, partners come along and teach you something. Sometimes they will be with you for a short time and sometimes for a long time. The most important thing is that you never allow yourself to be limited by the other (or anyone else) on your way becoming a swan. You should also give your partner space to discover his own swan.
Protective caring
As the swan hatches its eggs, an intense connection is formed with the little ones in the making. Even though the pregnancy takes place outside the body, the energy of the mother swan is fully absorbed by the eggs. Just like in humans. After their birth, the path to making the youngsters independent begins. To protect them, but also to let them discover their own way. Swan parents are extremely protective, and humans know that the swan’s wings can easily break bones.
Have you been raised in a very protective way? Do you protect your children the same way? Have you felt that you have tried to get out under that protection? Do you see your children are trying to do the same? Everything with TOO, dear cherished one, is overdone. Children that are yours, will always try to do things differently. To find their own way.
Letting go
Do you have children of your own and you recognize that you copied this protective behavior, even though you hated it so much? Take some of the swan’s power and let your offspring be free to explore. Do you really think that swan parents with 6 hatchlings will see everything their kids are doing? They don’t have time for that. Swans create the conditions for their offspring to grow up. They are far too busy providing enough food and only provide protection when a dangerous situation occurs. When that happens, the security of their mother’s wings is always there.
It is all about giving them the basics, enabling them to understand that they can create their own life and take responsibility for it. If everything is always possible and allowed, reality becomes harsh. If nothing is ever possible or allowed, the free inner SELF is destroyed, and a kind of unworldly BEing is created. If you have a relaxed outlook on life and know that bumping your nose or burning your fingers (literally or figuratively) is a lesson, you also get more space and peace to spend on your SELF, because you to have a road to travel and are of great value to the bigger picture.
Be your own father, mother and child
The fact that your parents never understood you and probably never will, is not a big deal. They did their best in their own way to give you what they thought was best or what they were capable of, given their soul alignment. Are you hurt? Angry? Disappointed? All those feelings are YOURS, and you are the one who has to solve them inside yourSELF.
You can do that by merging father, mother and child inside yourself. It might not be easy to do, and it requires you to really dare to look at your inner SELF. Your inner parents, for example, can comfort your inner child, give it the love it missed, give it the strength to dare to play freely and stain your shirt or jump into puddles of rain. The beauty of being an adult is that you no longer need to abide by everything that has ever been imposed on you. Pff, that feels liberating…
The swan inside you
If the swan comes on your path in any way, shape or form, it is a stimulus to grow. To become the swan you are meant to be in this life. Do you see the grace of the beautiful round wings as the swan swims around in its pool of life? Do you too want to float freely, quietly and carefree like that? All you have to do is find the space to do so. Away from the hustle and bustle. The silence within you has special secrets to reveal, which only you can hear, feel and/or see.
This powerful animal with its graceful and oh so strong wings stands up for itself. Is completely in its own power. Go forth and search, where your strengths are, dear cherished one. Be aware that everything you have experienced so far will make a positive contribution to that. Whether it concerns unpleasant or pleasant experiences, the lesson is always to progress on your life’s mission.
Black/white
There are white swans, as well as black swans. They are as beautiful as the white ones and the animal itself has nothing to do with black, meaning it has nothing to do with darkness. Yet, humans will automatically make that connection.
Dear cherished one, you are a creature of light. But keep in mind that darkness is trying to take away your power, and the power of all other creatures of light. To tempt you to stay where you are now. To imagine that the qualities that do not adorn you and that you want to get rid of are not that bad at all. Trying to keep you in the third dimension. By sending grief on your path. By making you experience scary dreams. By making you wake up in the morning feeling downhearted. Sowing doubt and uncertainty.
On top of that, fourth and fifth dimensional people have certainly had to deal with darkness in our former lives in the 1st, 2nd and 3rd dimensions. To learn to understand. And we have succeeded, because otherwise we would not be here now.
Know that because of your lived experiences you have the strength to hold on to the white light. Proud as a torch, burning in the night. It is time for you to begin or continue your transformation to the adult swan, no matter what is happening around you. Make sure your light keeps shining. Be a beacon for those who are searching and share what you have in you. That may be more than you can suspect right now, but everything will be revealed at the right time. Are you looking forward to it? Enjoy growing and loving, you powerful, white swan!
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